One of the joys of weight loss surgery is we get to know people more than we do in general or trauma surgery. We see them through struggles with weight, we see them make great strides, and we appreciate those who keep trying no matter what.

Yesterday I heard that a dear patient died. Virginia was 65 years old, and had her Lap-Band placed in 2007. She took this task seriously, and she came to every support group we had. Over the course she lost about 100 pounds, and kept it off. Struggling sometimes, but always bouncing back, always coming to the office with a smile, and always making it to our monthly support group.

From a weight loss surgeon’s perspective you can’t ask more from a patient. Changing a lifestyle is difficult, especially difficult when you do it at 61 years old. But she set her mind that “I don’t know how long I have, but I am tired of carrying this weight.”

We often see people come to the monthly support group pre surgery, and maybe a few visits after surgery- then they fall away. But there are those few who come on a regular basis- and funny thing- those are the ones that get to their goal and stay there.

From Virginia we have learned – never give up, never give in. There is always more to learn about weight loss – and she did everything she could – right up to the end.

We will miss Virginia- for those that knew her, a service will be at the Heritage Funeral Chapel on 6830 W. Thunderbird, Peoria, AZ on December 18th at 1 pm.